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Abortion is one of those subjects that has always made me uncomfortable. Even my discomfort with the subject makes me uncomfortable. Not being a woman, I don't feel qualified to speak on the matter. But then, if I say "This is a women's issue and men shouldn't involve themselves," I'm not sure that's a healthy attitude either, just because it sounds too much like a way to trivialize the issue, saying "This isn't a Real Issue; it's some little Women's Thing," which is bad.

Anyway, one of the biggest issues I've had in my own mind is that I've got a very low-level aversion to the notion that there are people out there who consider abortion to be just another form of contraception. It's much easier for me to accept abortion as an unfortunate necessity in cases of rape, incest, even contraceptive failure, but when I consider the case of someone just saying "Eh. We won't bother with a condom; She'll just have an abortion if she gets knocked up," something at a viceral level just squicks me. I have always known that my squickage is not a good basis for legal and ethical policy, but low-level squicks aren't really responsive to reason. What I really needed was an equal and opposite base reaction to put my concern to rest.

I finally get it. It's right here: Mike the Mad Biologist: Forced Childbirth Versus Pregnancy Shouldn't Be Punishment

Pregnancy should never be punishment. No one should be forced to give birth to a child who doesn't want to. And, for that matter, no child deserves to be forced to be born to a parent who doesn't want them.

That's it. Not going to rail about politics. Not going to talk about what's wrong with the other side. Not going to go on at length expounding and reasoning through things. Read Mike's article. This is now the beginning and the end of the argument for me, the question that silences all the others in my own mind. Whichever side you're on, think about that question: should pregnancy be a punishment?

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This article doesn't consider the possibility of adoption - it only considers "foster parenting" as an inherent evil. While, I am non-committal to form a hard and fast stance on abortion, due to the reasons enumerated in your introduction, I still think adoption should be considered for those who "unluckily" get knocked up. A common argument that I've heard against the adoption route is that if the preganancy goes full term, the woman will ultimately grow too attached to the child and won't want to give it up. That's fine, but then it ultimately seems to fly in the face of the argument that abortion is necessary to rid the world of an "unwanted child." Any thoughts?

Hmm... No one is forcing anyone to become pregnant. Yes, some women will become pregnant by rape, but that chances of that happening statistically are very very low. People, men and women both, should think before having sex, and be ready to accept the possable consequences, including pregnancy. How is pregnancy a punishment? Is anyone forcing someone else to bear a child? Punishment implies that someone else in inflicting something undesirable on someone else. You pose some intresting questions here that deserve merit, but I think you need to rethink them.

SH, what you say about "consequences" is *exactly* what I mean by "punishment". Your attitude reduces to "They shouldn't have done the crime if they weren't willing to pay the price." That's what punishment *means*. If someone was forcing them to have sex, it would *not* be "punishment" by definition. A man who commits a crime and goes to jail is being *punished*. The fact that he deserves the punishment doesn't enter into it.

"People, men and women both, should think before having sex, and be ready to accept the possable consequences, including pregnancy." Well, duh. But in saying "You had sex. This is the consequence. This is what you deserve for your lapse in judgment." You *are* making pregnancy a punishment. There's no way around it. Even if you feel that it is a just consequence, even if you feel that "they shouldn't have done that unless they were willing to face the consequences," you *are* thinking of pregnancy as a "punishment" -- as a just consequence for bad behavior.

Look at your own argument, and think about this parallel: "People, men and women both, should think before having sex, and be ready to accept the possable consequences, including STDs." I think most people would say that withholding STD treatment on the basis of "You did the deed: now you have to face the consequences" is plainly insane (which is not to say that some people haven't made that claim. But, like I said, those people are plainly insane). The argument against abortion can't evade the fact that it requires treating pregnancy as a negative consequence to be imposed for bad behavior.

There are some things in this world that -- even though they may make fine logical sense, even though they appeal to our sense of justice -- we consider anathema. We support our capitalist system and consider ourselves masters of our own bodies, but you can't sell your organs on eBay. It may be just, even seem useful to inflict pain on a violent criminal to get information, but we forbid torture.

To me, at least, the creation of life is an amazing and wonderful thing. To try to reduce it to someone's just desserts for a lapse in judgment just seems, well, perverse.

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